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Idk I just be doing whatever.

That’s taken the shape of a lot of random adventures over the years. Adult summer camp, cosplay contests, starting ballet as a grown adult, learning archery for no practical reason, being an extra in multiple superhero movies.

Some of these start as jokes. Some turn into real doors opening. All of them teach me something about confidence, rejection, and how much of life is just logistics once you decide to try.

I document the process as I go. What I applied for, what worked, what didn’t, and what I’d do differently, so other people can see that interesting lives are not mere accidents. They’re intentially built one side quest at a time.

If you’re curious, bored, or wondering “could I do that too?”

You probably can.

40 Countries before Age 40

I'm currently on country #31, mostly solo, wandering into places alone, figuring things out as I go, making friends with strangers, and collecting stories I couldn’t have imagined.

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Cosplay

40 Countries before Age 40

Catch me at Dragon Con every year! I've cosplayed Calliope, Lady Danbury, Katara and Princess Yue, Mel Medarda, Shuri from Black Pather, and so many more.

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Adult Ballet Lessons

40 Countries before Age 40

Adult Ballet Lessons

I started ballet classes when I was 27 years old, and eventually advanced to the pointe shoe class. It's never too late to learn a new skill and build new strengths.

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Archery

and I Also Draw Comic Books

Adult Ballet Lessons

This is the newest skill I am learning. Something I tried at Adult Summer Camp (yes that is a thing, more on that later). If I started as a kid I could be an Olympian by now!

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Public Speaking

and I Also Draw Comic Books

I promise I started out "arms are heavy, knees weak, palms are sweaty," just like everybody else! But it turns out speaking is easier than we think. I've spoken at tech conferences, panels, podcasts and newscasts. Turns out the hardest part is saying yes.

Learn more (or book me!) here.

and I Also Draw Comic Books

but more on that some other time....

Movie Extra

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

From riding a hovering train in Black Panther, to dancing at a frat party on Vampire Diaries, to running for my life in Captain America, I pop up here and there in many of the biggest TV shows and movies. It's surprisingly easy, and anyone can start.

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Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Please forgive my appearance. I was living out a vehicle lol

I was invited on a summer-long road trip where I interviewed designers, engineers, architects, and many other professionals about their careers for season 12 of the show.

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Adult Summer Camp

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Adult Summer Camp

It's exactly what it sounds like. Shared cabins, hiking, ziplines, lakes and boats, archery...and an open bar!

I never went to summer camp as a kid, but I don't think the 12 year olds party this hard....

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Idk I just be doing whatever.

current side quests

40 Countries before Age 40

40 Countries before Age 40

40 Countries before Age 40

Cosplay

40 Countries before Age 40

40 Countries before Age 40

Adult Ballet Lessons

40 Countries before Age 40

Adult Ballet Lessons

Archery

and I Also Draw Comic Books

Adult Ballet Lessons

Public Speaking

and I Also Draw Comic Books

and I Also Draw Comic Books

and I Also Draw Comic Books

and I Also Draw Comic Books

and I Also Draw Comic Books

past side quests

Movie Extra

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Adult Summer Camp

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Adult Summer Camp

you can become your most interesting self

Idk I just be doing whatever.

current side quests

40 Countries before Age 40

40 Countries before Age 40

40 Countries before Age 40

Cosplay

40 Countries before Age 40

40 Countries before Age 40

Adult Ballet Lessons

40 Countries before Age 40

Adult Ballet Lessons

Archery

and I Also Draw Comic Books

Adult Ballet Lessons

Public Speaking

and I Also Draw Comic Books

and I Also Draw Comic Books

and I Also Draw Comic Books

and I Also Draw Comic Books

and I Also Draw Comic Books

past side quests

Movie Extra

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Adult Summer Camp

Roadtrip Nation (PBS)

Adult Summer Camp

you can become your most interesting self

follow my story, and get started!

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